Disipline veres Punishment

Discipline is a positive constructive way of teaching. True discipline is not punishment however, they are often confused. Discipline usually teaches compliance by allowing the child to feel good about him/her self. Discipline focuses on the behavior that needs to be learned and not the “un acceptable behavior”.

Make promises that you can keep: If you promise a toddler that she will get a turn on the swing be sure to keep your promise.

·         Take your child on different trips.

·         Expose your child to different cultural activities

·         Take them to a park outside their neighborhood

You should be nearby and be attentive: Mobile infants move very quickly and are always exploring. They do not understand danger and need your guidance.

You should praise infants/toddlers for pro-social behaviors: You should praise children for good behaviors and try not to let anti-social behaviors be the best way to get attention. When you praise tell the child what you like. You can do this with a hug, a smile, or words.

Praise builds self-esteem and as their self-esteem grows so will their self-control. You   will  have a positive feeling regarding your efforts to socialize and discipline the children  in a positive way. Limits should be guided based on the development  stage of the child.