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Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Self-regulation

Your toddler will cry if you take an object away or if a family member is leaving or if you want to transition  from one activity to the next. This behavior is normal for this age because your toddler is not able to process some information as yet. What is not normal is when your toddler stays crying for a long time and is very difficult to calm herself down. This can be the beginning of emotional problems for  her if you are not in tune with her and help her to learn how to calm herself down. This is one of the skills that are needed for school. Research shows that children who are able to calm them self down  is easier to work with in school and will grow up to become emotionally stable children as they grow.
I have seen many children who are not able to make transitions and needed special services to help them through the process. Emotional stability is the first  skill that is needed before learning can take place. Children who gets upset in childcare programs and begins to throw objects are usually the ones who are not able to calm themselves down.
You need to help your infant/toddler to  master these skills during the infant/toddler years to avoid later problems.

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