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Friday, September 6, 2013

Attachement that is secure

As school begins it is very important that your infant/toddler has secure  attachment. Loving trusting relationships result in trust. The child know that they can count on you to be attuned to their feelings and to respond quickly and  positively. This is very important when you take your toddler to a sitter, daycare etc. I remember taking my daughter to the baby sitter and she never cried when I leave and the baby sitter  could not understand. She had a secure relationship .She also learned that I would always come back to get her and that her needs would be met. She started with the baby sitter when she was 11 months and that is the only baby sitter she has had. She has a chance to develop a relationship with the family of the baby sitter. She is now 15 and goes to visit when she can.

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